I can’t lie to you and tell you that standing in front of someone and offering them your soul and having them reject you is not gonna be one of the worst things that ever happens to you. You will wonder for days or weeks or months or years afterward what it is about you that was so wrong or broken or ugly that they couldn’t love you the way you loved them. You will look for all the reasons inside yourself that they didn’t want you and you will find a million. Maybe it was the way you looked in the mornings when you first woke up and hadn’t showered. Maybe it was the way you were too available, because despite what everyone says, playing hard to get is still attractive. Some days you will believe that every atom of your being is defective somehow. What you need to remember, as I remembered as I watched Grace Town leave, is that you are extraordinary. .Krystal Sutherland
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If someone is rejecting you, the best thing to do is be open and honest with them. Don't lie about anything and don't be afraid to tell them what you really want. If they aren't hearing it, don't force them to hear it. The worst thing you can do is to play games or try to keep something from them that you think they will feel bad about later. There are a lot of things that we don't want others to know, but if we can tell someone who seems nice, kind and caring about those things, they will probably understand and won't judge you harshly.
Source: Our Chemical Hearts
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